Heart Broken

Where do i start.......this blog might be a really sad one cause i am actually going to write about myself see i have always been a really nice guy have been heartbroken really badly...........I met this really nice girl i do not think i should call any names ....this individual captivated me from first sight she was extremely beautiful fun loving and special......for the first time in a long time i started to feel the joy of wanting to be with someone again after my heart was broken.....We started to talk to each other more and more and after a time i started to find myself liking this individual more.....If anyone knows Sean Lopez he admires a woman who can carry on a good conversation and this girl had it......she could make me laugh smile and blush all in the same sentence....she was sweet this girl became my source of comfort i enjoyed every waking moment spent with her.....but i messed up i screwed up things really bad at times but in-spite of what i did she still loved me to me that was a first cause most girls would not of taken as much crap as this girl did.....so i decided i was going to behave and settle down and really start appreciating this individual for the person she truly was....and that was nothing but remarkable someone who deserved to be love for who and what she was........I started to silently fall in love with her she became part of my everyday living my early mornings and my really late nights we spent more time with each other than anybody i know......the even better thing is that we never got bored spending time together i was there for her 24 O and her likewise.........I fell in love with her not just you know ordinary fall in love the one where you say it but don't mean it.......I really fell in love with her with my whole heart she became center of heart...her happiness meant everything to me and i have to let her go cause we are from two different worlds........my heart really hurts but i want to take this opportunity to let this individual know that I love her and you meant the world to me and i am sorry for breaking your heart if i did i also want you to know that i was my happiest when i was with you and i hope our part cross again.....and this time i promise never to let you go.............................I LOVE YOU!!!! Onika Alexander.........


Yours Forever
Sean Lopez

ALWAYS APPRECIATE LITTLE THINGS.....

A married lady was expecting a birthday gift from her husband.
For many months she had admired a beautiful diamond ring in a showroom,
and knowing her husband could afford it, she told him that was all she
wanted.

As her birthday approached, this lady awaited signs that her husband
had purchased the diamond ring.
Finally, on the morning of her birthday, her husband called her into his study.
Her husband told her how proud he was to have such a good wife, and told her how much he loved her.

He handed her a beautiful wrapped gift box.
Curious, the wife opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible,
with the wife's name embossed in gold.
Angrily, she raised her voice to her husband and said, 'With all your
money you give me a Bible?' And stormed out of the house, leaving her
husband.

Many years passed and the lady was very successful in business. She
managed to settle for a more beautiful house and a wonderful family,
but realized her ex-husband was very old, and thought perhaps she
should go to visit him. She had not seen him for many years.
But before she could make arrangements, she received a telegram
telling her that her ex-husband had passed away, and willed
all of his possessions to her. She needed to come back immediately
and take care of things.

When she arrived at her ex-husband's house, sudden sadness and
regret filled her heart. She began to search through her ex-husband's
important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as she had left it
years before.
With tears, she opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. Her
ex-husband had carefully underlined a verse, Matt 7:11,
'And if you, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children,
how much more shall your Heavenly Father, who is in heaven,
give what is good to those who ask Him?'

As she read those words, a tiny package dropped from the back of
the Bible. It had a diamond ring, with her name engraved on it --
the same diamond ring which she saw at the showroom.
On the tag was the date of her birth, and the words.'LUV U ALWAYS'.

How many times do we miss God's blessings, because they are not
packaged as we expected? I trust you enjoyed this.
Pass it on to others.

Do not spoil what you have, by desiring what you have not; but remember
that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for..

IF YOUR GIFT IS NOT PACKAGED THE WAY YOU WANT IT,
IT'S BECAUSE IT IS BETTER PACKAGED THE WAY IT IS.
ALWAYS APPRECIATE LITTLE THINGS;
THEY USUALLY LEAD YOU TO BIGGER & BETTER THINGS.

'The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.'

How Women Treat Men (Life as a Guy)

My topic was very hard to write this morning cause i know i am going to have alot of women objecting, but honestly this is what women do and this is how they treat men......please don't think i am a feminist but after i saw this video i taught i would share it here on my blog!!! I want to know what you think after seeing this video???

"Relationship Reverse"

Have you ever been in a situation where communication did not go as you wanted it to go and you wished you could do a U-turn and reverse what you've said, done or thought? We certainly have. Here's a typical situation that comes up for many of us where it might be wise to do a "reverse" and do things differently to create a different outcome for you, your partner and your relationship...Imagine that your partner, spouse or someone you love does something unexpected, not what you thought you agreed on, and when you get angry about it, the other person becomes defensive, lashes out at you or withdraws. This is a common communication problem for couples.

At the last minute, Elizabeth's husband stayed at work for a meeting and didn't tell her about it. She had been at work all day and had expected that the two of them would go out to dinner together. When she got home, he wasn't there--and he didn't come home for another two hours.

Elizabeth was furious and although he didn't do it often, it certainly wasn't the first time this had happened!

In the past, when he didn't call her and let her know when he was going to be late, she literally pounced on him as soon as he stepped in the door.

She would let him know that she was angry and as a result, he immediately became defensive and shut down to her as he walked into his study, slamming the door. When this
would happen, it would take them several days to iron out their differences and feel close again.

Since she was tired of doing the same dance over and over, Elizabeth decided to do it differently. She did a "Relationship Reverse."

Okay, she was angry but instead of stewing in her anger while she waited for her husband to get home, mulling over in her mind how unfair his behavior was, she took the time to sit with her anger, breathing into it, to discover what was underneath it.

As she sat with her anger, the thought came up that she feared that she wasn't as important to her husband as he was to her. She didn't feel respected.

Underneath her anger was the fear that he might be losing interest in her and in their marriage. She knew that that thought was untrue because he was loving and attentive
in a lot of other ways but the fear crept into her conscious thoughts anyway.

As Elizabeth started focusing on ways that her husband showed his love to her, she noticed that her fear and anger began to soften. She also began focusing on what she wanted--which was for him to call her when
he was going to be late and also for the two of them to keep their connection strong.

When her husband came home that evening, he was met with a very different Elizabeth. She was open to him--and she wasn't yelling at him.

Because he didn't go into "defensive" mode, he told her he was sorry that he hadn't told her about the meeting that came up at the last minute.

Elizabeth listened and told him about her fears--that she felt she wasn't important to him when he failed to let her know about a change in plans.

He was shocked that she felt that way and reassured her that she and their marriage were most important to him. He hadn't realized what his lack of communication
said to her--and it wasn't what he wanted in the future.

Elizabeth then told him what she wanted--that she would have loved to have known about this meeting earlier--maybe a phone call or text message. She asked him if he would let her know the next time it happened that he would be late.

Because he saw how important this was to her and to the health of their marriage, he agreed and told her again how important she was to him.

This interaction was completely different from any previous to this. Elizabeth could say what she needed to say and her husband stayed open to her and understood her because he
wasn't shut down. They could stay connected and work out a problem without the normal anguish between them.

Do you face this same situation? Please tell us how do you deal with it?

Internet Relationship

Internet Romances
How is it that people who live thousands of miles from each other are able to experience feelings as the result of an Internet relationship-- with someone they have never personally met or seen?
I have heard various stories of people saying that, The best thing about meeting others through the Internet is that you already know the person pretty well before you even meet for the first time. The whole idea of corresponding with each other through e-mail and then sharing some phone calls together before meeting is so much better than traditional dating. Please tell me what you think about Internet Relationships???

Relationship

What is it that makes a good relationship.....what is it that spoils a good relationship.....and why do we end up blaming each other????